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Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler explores the brilliant minds of people bringing work, life, and breadth into the field of sex and sexuality from both clinical & everyday perspectives.
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Join Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler in a fearless and insatiable, pioneering podcast that takes an unapologetic look at all things sex, sexual and sexy.
It is time to GETSOME
Delight as she dives into all different corners of the sex and sexuality spectrum.
From online dating to non-monogamy, and beyond, she offers a safe space to get your burning questions answered.
Her curiosity sends her mining for questions and perspectives down unimaginable paths and corners that she wants to share with you. It’s all about sex and it’s not. She cares about humans, culture and lifestyles.
If the idea of unrepentantly loving the pleasures of the flesh don’t pique your interest, keep scrolling.
Episodes
Tuesday Feb 14, 2023
Tuesday Feb 14, 2023
Curious about how Valentine's Day came to be?
GETSOME delves into the various legends surrounding the origins of Valentine's Day and some of the unique traditions that vary from culture to culture including some of the places in the world where celebrating can be downright dangerous.
Despite the variations in how the holiday is celebrated, the central themes of love, affection, and appreciation remain consistent. So, no matter how you choose to celebrate, the essence of the day remains the same, to show love and appreciation to those who matter the most.
Show Notes:
0:41 In the weeds on Valentine’s Day
2:44 Billy Miner Pie
4:06 Recipe for disaster
5:07 The veil of mystery behind Valentine's Day
6:13 “This is all ass backwards!” says the sex therapist.
7:08 A feast or an execution?
9:06 Mating birds in February reminded him of love
10:29 Unique Valentine's traditions around the world
12:50 Celebrating Valentine’s day behind closed doors
14:12 The need for love and connection keeps the species alive
Remember, send in your confessions, questions or inspirational stories and you just might hear it on the air.
Email: michelle@getsome.ca
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Thursday Jan 26, 2023
Thursday Jan 26, 2023
Confession #1 Married bi identified cis man in an open relationship with a cis woman is struggling to find romantic relationships on dating apps. He’s either fetishized as the “straight guy’ on gay dating apps or met with suspicion by women on heterosexual dating apps
Confession #2 I orgasm faster with a “full” vagina.
Confession #3 My boyfriend wants me to pretend I’m a pig and oink during sex
Show Notes:
0:53 Men only want to hookup and women think I’m gay
2:56 Dating apps for bi identified men in open relationships?
5:34 Fill up my vagina please, I want to cum
7:03 You want me to oink like a pig?
Remember, send in your confessions, questions or inspirational stories and you just might hear it on the air.
Email: michelle@getsome.ca
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The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult with your healthcare professional for any medical questions or concerns.The information provided on this podcast is not a substitute for medical or health advice from a professional who is aware of the facts and circumstances of your individual situation.
Thursday Jan 12, 2023
Thursday Jan 12, 2023
If you are having sex you should know about Sensate Focused Therapy, a widely used technique amongst sex therapists. This form of therapy helps support clients in getting out of their head and into their bodies when giving or receiving touch. It can be useful for a range of different relationships like those with a history of pelvic pain, people with penises experiencing anxiety around getting an erection, relationships where a desire discrepancy has been present and more. Not in a relationship, not a problem, sensate is versatile.
Today’s guest, Linda Weiner, a licensed clinical social worker, owner of Sex Therapist St. Louis, and co-author of the book Sensate Focus in Sex Therapy: The Illustrated Manual, joins host Michelle Fischler. Together, they discuss what Sensate Focused Therapy is, how individuals and couples can benefit from it, and more.
Show Notes:
02:16: What is Sensate Therapy?
05:00: The goal of Sensate Therapy
07:13 The trilogy of good sex
12:11: Why do some people need Sensate Focused Therapy?
16:56: A person’s introduction to Sensate Focused Therapy
25:41: Boredom in the bedroom
29:00: Making time to have sex/how often should you have it?
33:05: The importance of touch
35:15: If penetration isn’t the goal/conversations around sex with partner
40:22: Do people need to go to a sex therapist for Sensate Therapy?
Where you can find Linda:
www.sextherapiststlouis.com
https://www.instagram.com/lindajweiner/
Twitter: couplesguru
www.facebook.com/lindaweinercouplesguru
You Tube: Recovering your sex drive with Sensate Focus Mindful Touching Techniques
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpqwyXDSsvk
Disclaimer
All opinions expressed by podcast guests / participants are solely their current opinions and do not reflect the opinions of GETSOME Inc. or affiliates or the companies with which the podcast guests / participants are affiliated, and may have been previously disseminated by them. The guests / participants opinions are based upon information they consider reliable, but neither GETSOME Inc. nor its affiliates, nor the companies with which such guests/participants are affiliated, warrant its completeness or accuracy, and it should not be relied upon as such.
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Thursday Dec 29, 2022
Thursday Dec 29, 2022
Various organizations across Canada are advocating for the decriminalization of sex work. This includes the Canadian Association of Social Workers, who’s code of ethics seeks to balance the protection of individuals and the principle of doing no harm with autonomy and self-determination. The advocacy only applies to the selling of sex between two consenting adults.
Today’s guests, Elizabeth Weisz and Katherine Van Meyl, are supporters of the decriminalization of sex work. Elizabeth Weisz is a companion and sex worker who has been in the industry for almost seven years. Katherine Van Meyl is a therapist who adopts a psychodynamic perspective in the treatment of couples, families, and individuals. She also used to be part of the sex work industry and is creating a documentary highlighting male sex workers’ experiences within the industry.
In this episode, host Michelle Fischler speaks with Elizabeth and Katherine about their experiences in the industry, thoughts on the decriminalization of the industry, and more.
Show Notes:
2:25: Defining industry terminology – “sex worker” versus “companion
11:37: Legalities of sex work
23:13: Safety of sex workers
29:41: Supporting sex workers as a therapist
35:32: Relying on the sex work community as a sex worker
38:00: Getting into the industry
51:12: Benefits of being in the industry
57:56: Katherine’s documentary
Find Katherine Van Meyl here:
www.umbrellainsights.ca
Twitter: @KatVanMeyl
Instagram: @KatVanMeyl
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherine-van-meyl/
Find Elizabeth Wiesz here:
Twitter: @YourElizabethTO
IG: @Ellieweisz_to
Website: www.meetelizabethweisz.com (http://www.meetelizabethweisz.com/)
CASW The Canadian Association of Social Workers Provides Recommendations for a Safer, Better Canada for Sex-Workers
https://www.casw-acts.ca/en/canadian-association-social-workers-provides-recommendations-safer-better-canada-sex-workers
Show ideas or questions?
If you have questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, email them to michelle@getsome.ca. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.
Disclaimer
All opinions expressed by podcast guests / participants are solely their current opinions and do not reflect the opinions of GETSOME Inc. or affiliates or the companies with which the podcast guests / participants are affiliated, and may have been previously disseminated by them. The guests / participants opinions are based upon information they consider reliable, but neither GETSOME Inc. nor its affiliates, nor the companies with which such guests/participants are affiliated, warrant its completeness or accuracy, and it should not be relied upon as such.
Follow us on Instagram @getsome_podcast
Disclaimer:
All opinions expressed by participants are solely their current opinions and do not reflect the opinions of GETSOME Inc. or affiliates or the companies with which the participants are affiliated, and may have been previously disseminated by them. The participants opinions are based upon information they consider reliable, but neither GETSOME Inc. nor its affiliates, nor the companies with which such participants are affiliated, warrant its completeness or accuracy, and it should not be relied upon as such.